Have you ever been accused of not listening? Have you ever been involved in a conversation that turned into an argument where neither party felt they were being heard? It’s time to improve your listening skills.
You may be wondering what it means to improve listening skills. Never thought of listening as a skill before? You can’t be blamed for that. People aren’t usually taught listening skills. From childhood we’ve all been told how to speak, not to listen.
Benefits of improved listening
There are very good reasons for becoming a better listener.
You’ll be involved in less arguments.
You’ll come across as a good conversationalist even if you hardly speak. People will love talking to you.
You’ll be able to empathize with people better.
You’ll sell more to clients. Better listening leads to better understanding of what customers really need and want.
You’ll be more productive. Better listening will lead to knowing upfront what truly needs to be done to get the job done right the first time.
Here are 7 ways to become a better listener:
1- Tell yourself that what the other person is about to say is important. This automatically makes you pay attention more because who wants to miss something important? [Read more…]
